Good day dear readers!
If you’re anything like me, you would have lots of experience being tongue-tied in front of the woman of your dreams. I admit that I don’t have the ‘gift of gab’ and envy people who can engage anyone in animated conversation almost effortlessly. Not knowing what to say has landed me in tough spots, especially when I was trying to win a girl I really liked. So I pored over books, spent time surfing the net, and compiled a set of guidelines to help me and other guys like me to be better communicators – especially around that special someone. This post is for all of you!
Do you always have trouble coming up with things to say to a woman you really like? Whether you tend to run out of words the first time you meet or while on a date with one, don’t worry. You’re not alone. A lot of men have the same problem.
Some men get tongue-tied in the presence of the women they like, while others are just new at it. Then there are those men who can approach any woman they want and talk to her for hours on end just to get rejected because they were talking about the wrong things.
No matter what the reason behind your failure may be, if you want to have a girlfriend, but have no idea what to say, then you might end up in the friend zone or in the no-spark zone. Either way, those are zones that you would not want to find yourself in. Controlling a girl’s mind might be too early at this stage.
So, if you want to make sure you get the chance to talk to the woman of your dreams again or if you simply want to avoid spreading an aura of awkwardness that seems to be present whenever you’re around her from now on, here’s what you can do:
First of all, you need to realize that you cannot talk to women the same way you talk to your friends. Women can tell when men are attracted to them, even if they don’t say anything, so why not just state the obvious and tell her how you feel?
The thing is: women won’t react to you unless you say all of the right things. This means that you have to learn how to grab a woman’s attention with your words. Talk about interesting things and try to keep a smile on her face at all times, for example. Remember: women are very emotional, so make sure you say things that are very emotion-responsive, in general.
Naturally, you don’t want to come across as awkward when approaching a woman, either, so make sure you only say appropriate things. If you are meeting a woman for the first time, for example, try to start your conversation with something simple, like, “Do you work near here?” This way, you won’t freak her out with questions that may be too personal.
Conversely, if you already know the woman that you want to win over, try complimenting her on her hair or her clothes. She will appreciate this because women always spend a lot of time trying to improve their looks.
If you are already dating a girl, then make sure things go smoothly on your dates by being consistent. You can also try moving onto the next level you want. If you decide this, bank on your skills. There’s a famous seduction lair called SIBG and they may be able help you. It’s based in Baltimore, but the site says your location doesn’t matter.
This means that you can start making her feel special. When talking to her about something, ask her what she thinks or feels about the subject. This will work wonders and will prove that you really care about her because you’re also saying that her opinions matter.
You have to agree that everything I have outlined here is very easy to do if you put yout mind to it. But if you still don’t know what to say, you should at least know what NOT to say.
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